How to find jobs through the people you know

Building contacts, asking for advice the right way, and using professional networks without being pushy.

Why people matter in a job search

Many jobs are filled with help from people: someone hears that an office needs a new accountant, a former lecturer recommends a student, a colleague passes on an advert before it is widely shared. This isn't about favours or shortcuts. Employers like candidates someone can speak for, and people like helping someone they know is capable.

Networking simply means getting to know people in your field, staying in touch, and helping each other. Done well, it is honest and friendly, and it takes a little time each week.

Start with who you already know

Make a list. It is usually longer than you expect:

Next to each name, write where they work and what field they are in. You aren't asking each of them for a job. You are finding people who can tell you about their field, their workplace or openings they hear about.

Ask for advice, not a job

"Do you have a job for me?" is hard to answer, and usually the answer is no. "Could I ask you a few questions about working in procurement?" is easy to say yes to. People enjoy talking about their work, and a conversation about advice often leads to useful information and, later, to openings.

A short message works well:

"Hello Neema, I hope you are well. I finished my degree in Procurement and Supply last year and I'm looking for my first role. I saw that you work in procurement at a hospital. Would you have fifteen minutes this week or next for me to ask about your work and what employers look for? I'd be very grateful."

During the conversation, ask what their work involves, which skills matter most, how they found their job, and whether there is anyone else they think you should talk to. Thank them afterwards.

Professional networks online

A professional networking site such as LinkedIn lets employers and contacts find you. If you use one:

Keep all your public social media respectful. Employers sometimes look you up before inviting you to an interview.

Events, groups and associations

Professional associations, alumni groups, career fairs, workshops and trade shows are good places to meet people in your field. Prepare a short introduction of two sentences: who you are and what kind of work you are looking for. Ask people about their work, listen more than you talk, and exchange phone numbers with those you would like to stay in touch with. Follow up within a few days with a short message.

Do it the right way

Keep a simple routine

Each week, aim to contact two or three people: one old contact to catch up with, one new person in your field, and one thank-you to someone who helped. Keep a short list of who you spoke to and what they suggested. Over a few months, these small steps build a network that helps you hear about jobs and gives you people who can speak for your work.

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